1 Talk about decorating. You'll want to add your own touch to his place, or add your own touch to your place, but do not want to get on each others toes, or create a home that is visually appealing.
2 Put away anything you do not want to see it. Maybe you have some embarrassing photos of old guys, the photos when your face acne all over it, or when weighed little more than they want to admit you are weighed. Get rid of them or frame them up before you go along.
3 Make a clear list of what furniture you two will be used. Do not wait until it moved all the stuff before he decided his sofa should go into storage.
4 If you are getting a new place together, make it large enough to hold both of your belongings. You do not want to suddenly discover that he can not stand her big bed and antique dresser in his bedroom.
5 Talk about pets. If you or he has the animal, you'll want to talk about what you do with them, especially if pets are not allowed in the new location.
6 Sit with him and talk about finances - Who will pay for what, etc? Will you combine bank accounts? Whose name will be in the program? Figuring it all before moving together will make your move in much smoother.
7 Clean your cabinets. No, it will destroy your relationship if you do it, but it moves us some great time to go and get rid of stuff you never use.
8 Have a contingency plan. You may need to move with him, only to decide to move out months later, because it is not. Keep in mind a place to stay if you temporarily live with it do not work.
9 Plan for the future. If you think your moving in together is a prelude to marriage, and you plan to start with children now, then you want to make sure that you move into the home will be large enough to accommodate their children, as well.
10 Work from the routine. Plan how you will handle chores around your house or apartment. What happens when you get home from work and no food to eat? Do you cook and when it is your turn to cook or do you just what makes sense - to prepare something for you both
?10 Work from the routine. Plan how you will handle chores around your house or apartment. What happens when you get home from work and no food to eat? Do you cook and when it is your turn to cook or do you just what makes sense - to prepare something for you both
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